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Never Prepared For Death

My father died when I was nine years old. By the time I graduated from high school, both of my grandfathers had died. I was 26-years-old when I buried my first husband.  Over the course of my sixty-plus years, one would think that I would be accustomed to losing loved ones and friends, but that is not so. One is never prepared for the emotional consequences of death.  

Around Thanksgiving in 2013, my longtime friend from high school succumbed in a matter of days to the N1H1 flu. The following New Year’s Day, my friend lost her battle with ovarian cancer. By the end of that same January, our family lost my dad’s older sister. She lived a full life; she saw five grandchildren become adults and met her first great-grandchild. Then, on the heels of her passing, I learned that my first “real boyfriend” died, leaving three children – one of whom is a daughter he will never walk down the aisle. Days later, I learned my friend’s sister’s cancer was terminal. In late February of 2014, my cousin lost her husband and the father of their five beautiful children, ages sixteen to three. This past year, another cousin lost his beloved wife to the flu. So many losses can catch you off guard and remind you that there are no guarantees in life.

One may live a long, full life. One may have the privilege of watching grandchildren grow up and great-grandchildren arrive. One may see one’s children become adults but never see one’s children marry. One may never see one’s oldest child graduate from high school or one’s youngest child start kindergarten. One cannot prepare the ones left behind for the all-consuming grief that follows death.  

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